Updated: Jan 6, 2020
Are you living the life you want to be living? That’s a question that more and more people are searching to answer. In many cases, people are turning to professional life coaches to help themselves find their path in life. Following your dreams isn’t so easy when you’re not sure what those dreams really are. A professional life coach can help you find the clarity you need to move forward in life and find success, fulfillment, and happiness. There are many people who are interested in the idea of a life coach but aren’t sure what a life coach would really do for them. To give a little bit of clarity on this growing profession, here are the answers to some of the most frequently asked questions about life coaching. 1) What is a life coach? Think of the role of a coach in athletics. In sports, the coach guides the athletes to success, offers strategies for winning the game, and pushes them to be the best players they can be. A life coach has a similar role. A life coach encourages, empowers, and motivates clients to reach their personal and professional goals. Life coaching helps people understand their strengths and improve their weaknesses and provides an objective perspective on the obstacles standing in the way of success. In short, life coaches guide you from where you are to where you want to be. 2) How is life coaching different from counselling? Counselling typically investigates the causes and symptoms of mental health problems. Life coaches are not trained to diagnose medical issues or treat health-related problems. Coaching mainly focuses on personal development and self-improvement. 3) Why do you need a life coach? Couldn’t you just ask a friend for advice? A life coach is more like an advocate than a friend. Unlike a friend, they may push and challenge you to do things you wouldn’t normally do. A life coach will hold you accountable for your actions and will be there to guide you, not soothe you. Life coaches aren’t there for you to “vent” to and won’t just tell you what you want to hear. They are there to provide an objective look at the obstacles standing in the way of your goals and will help you create and enact a specific plan to move forward. Also, unlike a friend, the relationship with a life coach is a one-way street: it is exclusively focused on you. 4) What kinds of issues will a life coach help you with? In short, a life coach can help you work through any issue you struggle with. Success at work, staying in shape, improving your love life, standing up for yourself, working through writer’s block, becoming a better leader, fighting procrastination—Any sort of positive change you can imagine, a life coach can help you realize. 5) What happens in a typical life coaching session? The content of a coaching session varies based on the coach and the client. But we can give you a sample overview of the approach that many coaches take. Life coaches typically start out using a series of questions and exercises designed to get to know you and the way you approach the world. Many coaches find it helpful to use a DISC test in these initial meetings, as DISC tests can give a very accurate measurement of personality, drive, behavior, and motivation. Once your coach has a clear idea of who you are, what drives you, and what your ambitions are, they create an action plan to help you reach your goals. The pace of your coaching program will depend on your personality. If you are a person who is resistant to change (like a type S personality), the plan your coach will develop will be a series of small, manageable steps toward a larger goal. If you tend not to have the patience to wait for results and like the changes to come more quickly (like a D style personality), your coach will be more aggressive with the program. After the initial meeting, content of a typical coaching session often includes: Completing a coaching plan before your session, which reveals what you feel you’ve been successful at during the week and where you felt most challenged. Coaches often like to see this plan before the start of their session with you, as it will help them track your progress on your goals and determine a plan of action for the future. At the start of a coaching session, you and your coach will use your coaching plan to review what you’ve achieved since your last meeting. Based on your coaching plan, you and your coach will determine what to work on together that day. The coach will ask you questions and provide objective assessment of your situation, typically compelling you to make discoveries about yourself and to see the issue from a new perspective. Through a number of strategies and techniques, your coach will help you uncover the possible causes of your difficulties and assist you in determining the best way to approach or reframe the issue. At the end of the session, you and your coach will come up with an action plan for you to execute before your next meeting. After your session, your coach may ask you to create a follow-up plan that summarizes what you and your coach have discussed, what you need to work on, and how you intent to accomplish that goal. The goal of the follow-up plan is to keep you engaged and focused and to help you feel accountability for your goals.
5) How many life coaching sessions will you need to commit to? I personally offer a 6 session programme over 3 - 6 months.
We begin with a FREE 30 minute consultation. DiSC profiling is offered as part of the 6 session package. Of course we can tailor this using our mutually agreed contract. Some sessions can be held in my office and other over the phone or FaceTime. We will work it out together. 7) What is the best way to choose a life coach?
Look for certified life coaches. This is the best way to tell the difference between people that call themselves “life coaches” and professionals that have been properly trained to act as life coaches. Also, be sure to talk with a potential coach before scheduling a session. Rapport is often the most important factor in a client/coach relationship. If you don’t feel comfortable with a coach, look elsewhere.
My passion is to genuinely help people become the best they can be and I'll be honest with you. I have a successful business already. Coaching is a labour of love for me. I can ofer 30 minutes free consultation and share tools with you. Then we can discuss a 3 moth plan moving forward shucked you feel ready to accelerate!